Fifteen to twenty years ago, it would seem that we have made countless centuries of upbringing and changed this era completely from the old era ... today's child Why do we feel so different from our childhood? There are some very important things that we have overlooked. If we consider, training will be easier.
Parents were important before:
It is true that children demand attention and they should be respected but there was a time when it was most important for us to respect our parents ... their words were written on stone and their presence was such a feeling for us. There was a way in which Lahaz and Marwat were full of quotes ... Call it fear or the way of literature ... But to respond to the parents from the front, to scold them, to disobey their scolding, to disobey their order. Doing all this was considered very bad and we succeeded in life by growing up in this environment and we also have a sense of parenthood but the thought that the dignity of the child is the most important thing is completely reversing the home system. Fearing that the child's heart will not be hurt, the child will not feel bad, his dignity will not be diminished, if he said something in front of everyone, there will be no problem ... All the distances between the child and himself have been erased. ...
Education is superior to training
There was a time when the elders of the house insisted on training and their word was to be considered first and foremost ... There were schools near the house so that the child could easily go to and from school and put a lot of emphasis on teaching manners. I used to go ... Newspapers and magazines used to come to my house, stories were read and told ... Etiquette was taught to everyone sitting down ... There was a set time for watching TV ... If it was emphasized, there would be no pretense in it. The children were instructed to blend in with each other. They were not taught to spend things at once so that the child would realize that my parents loved me very much. Hard work has made this thing ... talking loudly to parents was considered one of the most disrespectful things ... but today's era has changed ... there are competitions for admission in school, children have been given priority over parents It is said that their dignity is more important than that of adults, there is no timetable, children are forced to play at home, parents are made friends of their choice, too much pampering is given, then children get angry and scolded. Can't stand it ... Education takes precedence over training Is given ...
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